OfthePassionswhichtaketheiroriginfromthebody1。Itisindecenttoexpressanystrongdegreeofthosepassionswhicharisefromacertainsituationordispositionofthebody;becausethecompany,notbeinginthesamedisposition,cannotbeexpectedtosympathizewiththem。Violenthunger,forexample,thoughuponmanyoccasionsnotonlynatural,butunavoidable,isalwaysindecent,andtoeatvoraciouslyisuniversallyregardedasapieceofillmanners。Thereis,however,somedegreeofsympathy,evenwithhunger。Itisagreeabletoseeourcompanionseatwithagoodappetite,andallexpressionsofloathingareoffensive。Thedispositionofbodywhichishabitualtoamaninhealth,makeshisstomacheasilykeeptime,ifImaybeallowedsocoarseanexpression,withtheone,andnotwiththeother。Wecansympathizewiththedistressitinthewhichexcessivehungeroccasionswhenwereadthedescriptionofjournalofasiege,orofaseavoyage。Weimagineourselvesinthesituationofthesufferers,andthencereadilyconceivethegrief,thefearandconsternation,whichmustnecessarilydistractthem。Wefeel,ourselves,somedegreeofthosepassions,andthereforesympathizewiththem:butaswedonotgrowhungrybyreadingthedescription,wecannotproperly,eveninthiscase,besaidtosympathizewiththeirhunger。
ItisthesamecasewiththepassionbywhichNatureunitesthetwosexes。Thoughnaturallythemostfuriousofallthepassions,allstrongexpressionsofitareuponeveryoccasionindecent,evenbetweenpersonsinwhomitsmostcompleteindulgenceisacknowledgedbyalllaws,bothhumananddivine,tobeperfectlyinnocent。Thereseems,however,tobesomedegreeofsympathyevenwiththispassion。Totalktoawomanaswewouldtoamanisimproper:itisexpectedthattheircompanyshouldinspireuswithmoregaiety,morepleasantry,andmoreattention;
andanintireinsensibilitytothefairsex,rendersamancontemptibleinsomemeasureeventothemen。
Suchisouraversionforalltheappetiteswhichtaketheiroriginfromthebody:allstrongexpressionsofthemareloathsomeanddisagreeable。Accordingtosomeancientphilosophers,thesearethepassionswhichweshareincommonwiththebrutes,andwhichhavingnoconnexionwiththecharacteristicalqualitiesofhumannature,areuponthataccountbeneathitsdignity。Buttherearemanyotherpassionswhichweshareincommonwiththebrutes,suchasresentment,naturalaffection,evengratitude,whichdonot,uponthataccount,appeartobesobrutal。Thetruecauseofthepeculiardisgustwhichweconceivefortheappetitesofthebodywhenweseetheminothermen,isthatwecannotenterintothem。Tothepersonhimselfwhofeelsthem,assoonastheyaregratified,theobjectthatexcitedthemceasestobeagreeable:evenitspresenceoftenbecomesoffensivetohim;helooksroundtonopurposeforthecharmwhichtransportedhimthemomentbefore,andhecannowaslittleenterintohisownpassionasanotherperson。Whenwehavedined,weorderthecoverstoberemoved;andweshouldtreatinthesamemannertheobjectsofthemostardentandpassionatedesires,iftheyweretheobjectsofnootherpassionsbutthosewhichtaketheiroriginfromthebody。
Inthecommandofthoseappetitesofthebodyconsiststhatvirtuewhichisproperlycalledtemperance。Torestrainthemwithinthosebounds,whichregardtohealthandfortuneprescribes,isthepartofprudence。Buttoconfinethemwithinthoselimits,whichgrace,whichpropriety,whichdelicacy,andmodestyrequire,istheofficeoftemperance。