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  Beforehehadbeenmanyyearsapartnertheadvertisementstoodasfollows:-

  “ThePiousCountryParishioner。AcompletemanualofChristianDevotion。Price10d。

  Areductionwillbemadetopurchasersforgratuitousdistribution。”

  Whatastrideismadeintheforegoingtowardsthemodernstandard,andwhatintelligenceisinvolvedintheperceptionoftheunseemlinessoftheoldstyle,whenothersdidnotperceiveit!

  WherethenwastheweakplaceinGeorgePontifex’sarmour?I

  supposeinthefactthathehadrisentoorapidly。Itwouldalmostseemasifatransmittededucationofsomegenerationsisnecessaryforthedueenjoymentofgreatwealth。Adversity,ifamanissetdowntoitbydegrees,ismoresupportablewithequanimitybymostpeoplethananygreatprosperityarrivedatinasinglelifetime。

  Neverthelessacertainkindofgoodfortunegenerallyattendsself-

  madementothelast。Itistheirchildrenofthefirst,orfirstandsecond,generationwhoareingreaterdanger,fortheracecannomorerepeatitsmostsuccessfulperformancessuddenlyandwithoutitsebbingsandflowingsofsuccessthantheindividualcandoso,andthemorebrilliantthesuccessinanyonegeneration,thegreaterasageneralrulethesubsequentexhaustionuntiltimehasbeenallowedforrecovery。Henceitoftenshappensthatthegrandsonofasuccessfulmanwillbemoresuccessfulthantheson——

  thespiritthatactuatedthegrandfatherhavinglainfallowinthesonandbeingrefreshedbyreposesoastobereadyforfreshexertioninthegrandson。Averysuccessfulman,moreover,hassomethingofthehybridinhim;heisanewanimal,arisingfromthecomingtogetherofmanyunfamiliarelementsanditiswellknownthatthereproductionofabnormalgrowths,whetheranimalorvegetable,isirregularandnottobedependedupon,evenwhentheyarenotabsolutelysterile。

  AndcertainlyMrPontifex’ssuccesswasexceedinglyrapid。Onlyafewyearsafterhehadbecomeapartnerhisuncleandauntbothdiedwithinafewmonthsofoneanother。Itwasthenfoundthattheyhadmadehimtheirheir。Hewasthusnotonlysolepartnerinthebusinessbutfoundhimselfwithafortuneofsome30,000poundsintothebargain,andthiswasalargesuminthosedays。Moneycamepouringinuponhim,andthefasteritcamethefonderhebecameofit,though,ashefrequentlysaid,hevalueditnotforitsownsake,butonlyasameansofprovidingforhisdearchildren。

  Yetwhenamanisveryfondofhismoneyitisnoteasyforhimatalltimestobeveryfondofhischildrenalso。ThetwoarelikeGodandMammon。LordMacaulayhasapassageinwhichhecontraststhepleasureswhichamanmayderivefrombookswiththeinconveniencestowhichhemaybeputbyhisacquaintances。

  “Plato。”hesays,“isneversullen。Cervantesisneverpetulant。

  Demosthenesnevercomesunseasonably。Danteneverstaystoolong。

  NodifferenceofpoliticalopinioncanalienateCicero。NoheresycanexcitethehorrorofBossuet。”IdaresayImightdifferfromLordMacaulayinmyestimateofsomeofthewritershehasnamed,buttherecanbenodisputinghismainproposition,namely,thatweneedhavenomoretroublefromanyofthemthanwehaveamindto,whereasourfriendsarenotalwayssoeasilydisposedof。GeorgePontifexfeltthisasregardshischildrenandhismoney。Hismoneywasnevernaughty;hismoneynevermadenoiseorlitter,anddidnotspillthingsonthetableclothatmealtimes,orleavethedooropenwhenitwentout。Hisdividendsdidnotquarrelamongthemselves,norwasheunderanyuneasinesslesthismortgagesshouldbecomeextravagantonreachingmanhoodandrunhimupdebtswhichsoonerorlaterheshouldhavetopay。ThereweretendenciesinJohnwhichmadehimveryuneasy,andTheobald,hissecondson,wasidleandattimesfarfromtruthful。Hischildrenmight,perhaps,haveanswered,hadtheyknownwhatwasintheirfather’smind,thathedidnotknockhismoneyaboutashenotinfrequentlyknockedhischildren。Heneverdealthastilyorpettishlywithhismoney,andthatwasperhapswhyheanditgotonsowelltogether。

  Itmustberememberedthatatthebeginningofthenineteenthcenturytherelationsbetweenparentsandchildrenwerestillfarfromsatisfactory。Theviolenttypeoffather,asdescribedbyFielding,Richardson,SmollettandSheridan,isnowhardlymorelikelytofindaplaceinliteraturethantheoriginaladvertisementofMessrs。Fairlie&Pontifex’s“PiousCountryParishioner。”butthetypewasmuchtoopersistentnottohavebeendrawnfromnatureclosely。TheparentsinMissAusten’snovelsarelesslikesavagewildbeaststhanthoseofherpredecessors,butsheevidentlylooksuponthemwithsuspicion,andanuneasyfeelingthatleperedefamilleestcapabledetoutmakesitselfsufficientlyapparentthroughoutthegreaterpartofherwritings。IntheElizabethantimetherelationsbetweenparentsandchildrenseemonthewholetohavebeenmorekindly。ThefathersandthesonsareforthemostpartfriendsinShakespeare,nordoestheevilappeartohavereacheditsfullabominationtillalongcourseofPuritanismhadfamiliarisedmen’smindswithJewishidealsasthosewhichweshouldendeavourtoreproduceinoureverydaylife。WhatprecedentsdidnotAbraham,JephthahandJonadabthesonofRechaboffer?HoweasywasittoquoteandfollowtheminanagewhenfewreasonablemenorwomendoubtedthateverysyllableoftheOldTestamentwastakendownverbatimfromthemouthofGod。Moreover,Puritanismrestrictednaturalpleasures;itsubstitutedtheJeremiadforthePaean,anditforgotthatthepoorabusesofalltimeswantcountenance。

  MrPontifexmayhavebeenalittlesternerwithhischildrenthansomeofhisneighbours,butnotmuch。Hethrashedhisboystwoorthreetimesaweekandsomeweeksagooddealoftener,butinthosedaysfatherswerealwaysthrashingtheirboys。Itiseasytohavejusterviewswheneveryoneelsehasthem,butfortunatelyorunfortunatelyresultshavenothingwhatevertodowiththemoralguiltorblamelessnessofhimwhobringsthemabout;theydependsolelyuponthethingdone,whateveritmayhappentobe。Themoralguiltorblamelessnessinlikemannerhasnothingtodowiththeresult;itturnsuponthequestionwhetherasufficientnumberofreasonablepeopleplacedastheactorwasplacedwouldhavedoneastheactorhasdone。Atthattimeitwasuniversallyadmittedthattosparetherodwastospoilthechild,andStPaulhadplaceddisobediencetoparentsinveryuglycompany。IfhischildrendidanythingwhichMrPontifexdislikedtheywereclearlydisobedienttotheirfather。Inthiscasetherewasobviouslyonlyonecourseforasensiblemantotake。Itconsistedincheckingthefirstsignsofself-willwhilehischildrenweretooyoungtoofferseriousresistance。Iftheirwillswere“wellbroken“inchildhood,touseanexpressionthenmuchinvogue,theywouldacquirehabitsofobediencewhichtheywouldnotventuretobreakthroughtilltheywereovertwenty-oneyearsold。Thentheymightpleasethemselves;

  heshouldknowhowtoprotecthimself;tillthenheandhismoneyweremoreattheirmercythanheliked。

  Howlittledoweknowourthoughts——ourreflexactionsindeed,yes;

  butourreflexreflections!Man,forsooth,prideshimselfonhisconsciousness!Weboastthatwedifferfromthewindsandwavesandfallingstonesandplants,whichgrowtheyknownotwhy,andfromthewanderingcreatureswhichgoupanddownaftertheirprey,aswearepleasedtosaywithoutthehelpofreason。Weknowsowellwhatwearedoingourselvesandwhywedoit,dowenot?Ifancythatthereissometruthintheviewwhichisbeingputforwardnowadays,thatitisourlessconsciousthoughtsandourlessconsciousactionswhichmainlymouldourlivesandthelivesofthosewhospringfromus。

  MrPontifexwasnotthemantotroublehimselfmuchabouthismotives。Peoplewerenotsointrospectivethenaswearenow;theylivedmoreaccordingtoaruleofthumb。DrArnoldhadnotyetsownthatcropofearnestthinkerswhichwearenowharvesting,andmendidnotseewhytheyshouldnothavetheirownwayifnoevilconsequencestothemselvesseemedlikelytofollowupontheirdoingso。Thenasnow,however,theysometimesletthemselvesinformoreevilconsequencesthantheyhadbargainedfor。

  Likeotherrichmenatthebeginningofthiscenturyheateanddrankagooddealmorethanwasenoughtokeephiminhealth。Evenhisexcellentconstitutionwasnotproofagainstaprolongedcourseofoverfeedingandwhatweshouldnowconsideroverdrinking。Hisliverwouldnotunfrequentlygetoutoforder,andhewouldcomedowntobreakfastlookingyellowabouttheeyes。Thentheyoungpeopleknewthattheyhadbetterlookout。Itisnotasageneralruletheeatingofsourgrapesthatcausesthechildren’steethtobesetonedge。Well-to-doparentsseldomeatmanysourgrapes;thedangertothechildrenliesintheparentseatingtoomanysweetones。

  Igrantthatatfirstsightitseemsveryunjust,thattheparentsshouldhavethefunandthechildrenbepunishedforit,butyoungpeopleshouldrememberthatformanyyearstheywerepartandparceloftheirparentsandthereforehadagooddealofthefuninthepersonoftheirparents。Iftheyhaveforgottenthefunnow,thatisnomorethanpeopledowhohaveaheadacheafterhavingbeentipsyovernight。Themanwithaheadachedoesnotpretendtobeadifferentpersonfromthemanwhogotdrunk,andclaimthatitishisselfoftheprecedingnightandnothisselfofthismorningwhoshouldbepunished;nomoreshouldoffspringcomplainoftheheadachewhichithasearnedwheninthepersonofitsparents,forthecontinuationofidentity,thoughnotsoimmediatelyapparent,isjustasrealinonecaseasintheother。Whatisreallyhardiswhentheparentshavethefunafterthechildrenhavebeenborn,andthechildrenarepunishedforthis。

  Onthese,hisblackdays,hewouldtakeverygloomyviewsofthingsandsaytohimselfthatinspiteofallhisgoodnesstothemhischildrendidnotlovehim。Butwhocanloveanymanwhoseliverisoutoforder?Howbase,hewouldexclaimtohimself,wassuchingratitude!Howespeciallyharduponhimself,whohadbeensuchamodelson,andalwayshonouredandobeyedhisparentsthoughtheyhadnotspentonehundredthpartofthemoneyuponhimwhichhehadlavisheduponhisownchildren。“Itisalwaysthesamestory。”hewouldsaytohimself,“themoreyoungpeoplehavethemoretheywant,andthelessthanksonegets;Ihavemadeagreatmistake;I

  havebeenfartoolenientwithmychildren;nevermind,Ihavedonemydutybythem,andmore;iftheyfailintheirstomeitisamatterbetweenGodandthem。I,atanyrate,amguiltless。Why,I

  mighthavemarriedagainandbecomethefatherofasecondandperhapsmoreaffectionatefamily,etc。,etc。”Hepitiedhimselffortheexpensiveeducationwhichhewasgivinghischildren;hedidnotseethattheeducationcostthechildrenfarmorethanitcosthim,inasmuchasitcostthemthepowerofearningtheirlivingeasilyratherthanhelpedthemtowardsit,andensuredtheirbeingatthemercyoftheirfatherforyearsaftertheyhadcometoanagewhentheyshouldbeindependent。Apublicschooleducationcutsoffaboy’sretreat;hecannolongerbecomealaboureroramechanic,andthesearetheonlypeoplewhosetenureofindependenceisnotprecarious——withtheexceptionofcourseofthosewhoareborninheritorsofmoneyorwhoareplacedyounginsomesafeanddeepgroove。MrPontifexsawnothingofthis;allhesawwasthathewasspendingmuchmoremoneyuponhischildrenthanthelawwouldhavecompelledhimtodo,andwhatmorecouldyouhave?Mighthenothaveapprenticedbothhissonstogreengrocers?Mighthenotevenyetdosoto-morrowmorningifheweresominded?Thepossibilityofthiscoursebeingadoptedwasafavouritetopicwithhimwhenhewasoutoftemper;true,heneverdidapprenticeeitherofhissonstogreengrocers,buthisboyscomparingnotestogetherhadsometimescometotheconclusionthattheywishedhewould。

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