THEVERYFRIENDLYYOUNGGENTLEMAN
Weknow—andallpeopleknow—somanyspecimensofthisclass,thatinselectingthefewheadsourlimitsenableustotakefromagreatnumber,wehavebeeninducedtogivetheveryfriendlyyounggentlemanthepreferenceovermanyothers,towhoseclaimsuponamorecursoryviewofthequestionwehadfeltdisposedtoassignthepriority。
Theveryfriendlyyounggentlemanisveryfriendlytoeverybody,butheattacheshimselfparticularlytotwo,oratmosttothreefamilies:regulatinghischoicebytheirdinners,theircircleofacquaintance,orsomeothercriterioninwhichhehasanimmediateinterest。Heisofanyagebetweentwentyandforty,unmarriedofcourse,mustbefondofchildren,andisexpectedtomakehimselfgenerallyusefulifpossible。Letusillustrateourmeaningbyanexample,whichistheshortestmodeandtheclearest。
Weencounteredoneday,bychance,anoldfriendofwhomwehadlostsightforsomeyears,andwho—expressingastronganxietytorenewourformerintimacy—urgedustodinewithhimonanearlyday,thatwemighttalkoveroldtimes。Wereadilyassented,adding,thatwehopedweshouldbealone。’Oh,certainly,certainly,’saidourfriend,’notasoulwithusbutMincin。’’AndwhoisMincin?’wasournaturalinquiry。’Odon’tmindhim,’
repliedourfriend,’he’samostparticularfriendofmine,andaveryfriendlyfellowyouwillfindhim;’andsoheleftus。