2。Where,however,apassiontakesitsoriginfromaparticularturnoftheimagination,theimaginationofothers,nothavingacquiredthatparticularturn,cannotsympathizewiththepassion,andsofindsitinsomemeasureridiculous。Thisisparticularlythecasewiththepassionoflove。Wemaysympathizewithourfriend\'sresentment,ifhehasbeeninjured,orenterintohisgratitude,ifhehasreceivedabenefit;butifheisinlove,howeverreasonablewemaythinkit,\"thepassionappearstoeverybody,butthemanwhofeelsit,entirelydisproportionedtothevalueoftheobject;andlove,thoughitispardonedinacertainage,becauseweknowitisnatural,isalwayslaughedatbecausewecannotenterintoit。Allseriousandstrongexpressionsofitappearridiculoustoathirdperson;andthoughalovermaybegoodcompanytohismistress,heissotonobodyelse。Hehimselfissensibleofthis;and,aslongashecontinuesinhissobersenses,endeavourstotreathisownpassionwithrailleryandridicule。Itistheonlystyleinwhichwecaretohearofit,becauseitistheonlystyleinwhichweourselvesaredisposedtotalkofit。\"
Ourphilosopherhoweveradmits,thatthoughwecannotproperlyenterintotheattachmentofthelover,wereadilysympathizewithhisexpectationsofhappiness。Thoughhispassioncannotinterestus,hissituationofmingledhopeandfearinterestsus,justasinthedescriptionofaseavoyageitisnotthehungerofthecrewwhichinterestsusbutthedistresswhichitoccasionsthem。Whenloveisinterestingonthestage,itissosimplyfromthedistressitoccasions。Asceneoftwolovers,inperfectsecurity,expressingtheirmutualfondnessforoneanother,wouldexcitelaughterandnotsympathy。Suchasceneisneverenduredbutfromconcernforthedangersanddifficultiesforeseeninthesequel,orfrominterestinthesecondarypassionsfear,shame,anddespairwhichareassociatedwithloveasasituation,andwithwhichalonewecanreallysympathize。
3。Inthethirdplacecometheunsocialpassions,suchashatredandresentment,withalltheirmodifications。Theyalsoarefoundedontheimagination,buthavetobeconsider-ablymodifiedbeforetheytouchthatpointofproprietywithwhichanimpartialspectatorcansympathize。
Forthesepassionsgiverisetoadoublesympathy,orratherdivideoursympathybetweenthepersonwhofeelsthemandthepersonwhoistheobjectofthem。Thoughwemaysympathizewithhimwhohasreceivedaprovocation,wealsosympathizewithhisadversary,ifhebecomestheobjectofundueresentment。Weenterintothesituationofboth,andthefearwefeelwiththeonemoderatestheresentmentwefeelwiththeother。Henceforresentmenttoattainthemeanofpropriety,itmustbemorereducedfromitsnaturaldegreethanalmostanyotherpassion;andthegreaterrestraintamanputsonhisanger,themorewillmankind,whohaveaverystrongsenseoftheinjuriesdonetoanother,enterintoandbearwithhisresentment。
Theseunsocialpassionsare,however,necessarypartsofhumannature,andasontheonehandwecannotsympathizewithexcessiveindignation,soontheotherhandweblameanddespiseaman\"whotamelysitsstillandsubmitstoinsults,\"fromourinabilitytocomprehendhisinsensibilityandwantofspirit。Thesepassionsarethereforeusefultotheindividual,asservingtoprotecthimfrominsultandinjury;butthereisstillsomethingdisagreeableinthemwhichmakestheirappearanceinothersthenaturalobjectofouraversion。Itissoevenwhentheyaremostjustlyprovoked。